Something I know about me is that I do parenting very *differently. I don’t find it hard. I don’t believe in “good or bad” kids. I don’t succumb to the “NORMAL” reality of parenting. So I’m gonna tell you a little story.
You know that feeling when you’re sitting on the lounge like a slob, clicking channel after channel? Lifeless? Bored? Disconnected?
That’s what 98% of people are doing and feeling in parenting. Going through the motions. Doing what their parents did. Thinking it’s all well and dandy when it’s destructive ASF.
Without getting technical, this pattern may have started long before you. One you learned from your parents, who learned it from theirs. Etc. So it’s not your fault, but if you have a role in a child’s life, it is your responsibility.
Many of the parenting patterns we know to be “normal” are actually designed to break your children. I see it ALL the time as a coach working with adults to integrate and HEAL their inner child, which got wounded as a result of THESE PATTERNS.
And I refuse to perpetuate that dangerous cycle.
I refuse to watch by.
I’m here to INTERRUPT it.
I did this myself when I fell pregnant. I interrupted a lot of what I knew to be “normal”. And so it’s no wonder people are shocked when I say parenting isn’t only easy, but HEALING too. I don’t relate to the typical convo’s of “I can’t relax in public with my kids” and “kids ruined my relationship” and you shouldn’t either. So let’s get into it.
When you think about parenting, whether you are one or not, do you find yourself thinking WTF IS the RIGHT way??? How do I make sure I don’t fuck up my child?
Well. I’m gonna tell you exactly HOW.
Introducing… INTERRUPT.
The course that will absolutely SHATTER your perspective on parenting and take you from struggling your way through and being lost and confused, to having a very clear sense of direction where you actually ENJOY every single part of it.
You want want your child to have the best fucking chance possible? That responsibility is on you. And I’m gonna help you, through:
INTERRUPTING the pattern,
Educating you on what NOT to do and what TO do,
And helping you to reparent and integrate your OWN inner child so you aren’t recreating the cycles with your child that you’re trying to heal and get away from.
LET ME GUESS. You’re someone who wants your child (or future child) to:
Have the best life possible.
Grow up believing in themselves
Know they are worthy as they are
Not chase dickhead partners or get mixed up in the “wrong crowd”
Know you are always there and will always support them
ALSOOO be a decent person, not a spoilt brat but not a people pleasing addict either!
And as a PARENT (Or future parent), you want to:
Support them without suffocating them
Be the “cool” parent but not be a pushover too
Be able to give your child the best, most abundant, secure, loving home possible
Know how to handle your own shit so your kid doesn’t cop it
Be the conscious and calm mummy who is raising a conscious bubby, instilling values and skills into them that actually MATTER
Basically, you’re a human who wants the absolute best for the little children of the world.
THIS IS NOT JUST FOR MUMS. This is also for:
Any to-be mummies
Anyone who is around children (nieces, nephews, teachers, childcare workers etc)
Anyone who has a role in guiding parents (coaches, friends, mentors)
In INTERRUPT, I’ll be addressing:
Controversial beliefs I have about parenting and the dangers associated with following the norm
Effective replacements to discipline that won’t damage your child
Where people go WRONG with parenting
How to ensure you don’t project YOUR inner child wounds onto your child
Navigating “challenging” behaviours from a conscious lens (eg. tantrums, denial, refusal)
What NOT to say to or around your children
The patterns and cycles in your family that need to STOP with you
You’ll walk away mastering:
How to stay integral when your child is having a meltdown
How to go to bed at night without questioning whether you’re fucking up you child
Navigating mum guilt
The art of being a parent but also not dropping your own standards
How to be an effective role model and disciplinary in your child’s life
You’ll learn how to break the pattern
Are you ready to be the CYCLE BREAKER?
