Relational Patterning Training

Your relationships can show you how far you have come, or they can represent how in the past you really are.

How often do you…

• Find yourself in the same patterns, no matter how hard you try to change them

• Struggle to speak up 

• Feel like your boundaries are being crossed

• Struggle to open up and trust 

• Overstay in relationships, even when you know they’re unhealthy 

• Feel uncomfortable showing emotion

• Avoid conflict even if you’re mad

• Attract in partner’s who aren’t ready to settle down

• Think you’re outgrowing your partner 

Our default responses and behaviours in relationships are an indication of the unmet needs, childhood wounding and attachment from our childhood. 

So you may find yourself dating, and not knowing who to go for, or whether to trust people, and being mindful of what side of you that you share… because of your inner child.

Or you may find yourself in a long term committed relationship, but you start to question whether you’re actually in love with this person, getting bored and complacent, and even giving the silent treatment because you can’t be bothered communicating… because of your inner child.

This is what happens. Your childhood sets the precedent for all of the ways you think and behave as an adult. In relationships, you will do things you don’t WANT to do (and call it self sabotage) and then wonder why you are in these toxic cycles.

“Until you make the unconscious, conscious, it will rule your world and you will call it fate” - Carl Jung. 

The first step in breaking these patterns is becoming CONSCIOUS of what you’re UNCONSCIOUS of. 

You’re SICK of feeling…

• Like your needs have to come second

• Anxious to the point you find a problem or panic when things are going well

• Like you may be abandoned at any minute 

• Responsible to carry the weight of your partner’s emotions 

• Unsafe to trust your partner 

• Stuck in the same loops 

AND YOU SHOULD BE. Because on the other side is a relationship that …

• Is SECURE - no more insecurities creating distance between you and your partner

• Feels SAFE - no more jealousy, control issues, intrusive thoughts about them leaving or cheating on you

• Is MATURE - you communicate like adults, respect one another’s boundaries and compliment each other’s life, limit it 

But you can only have that when you dissect your relational patterning.

In this mini training, you’re going to:

Learn how I dissect people through an inner child lens (this will allow you to have more compassion for others, and laser-like self awareness for your triggers)

Uncover the deep-rooted patterns you’re unconscious of (what you can SEE, you can CHANGE)

Understand the root cause, trigger and pattern behind your main relationship problems (understand your role, hidden trauma and kink behind your patterns)

And how this will be delivered is through a 50 minute pre-recorded training from Shedding.